What do you think of women doing this?

My xhusband tricked me into having a kid. I love my son to death. But I wanted to wait until I was done with college. So it isn't just the women. I don't think that it will save a relationship having a child. Sometimes it causes more problems having kids. The whole tricking your partner or spying on eachother just means you do not have trust. And without trust you do not have a relationship.